Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Love Language Revisited

I revisited my love language. I did it last year in August but I wasn't quite satisfied with it after doing it. The result last year was Acts of Service and Gifts. But when I think deep into it, I felt that was my way of loving someone. I will do things for them, I will serve them, I will buy gifts, I will spend time to do a gift, I will make a card, I will do things. But I have come to rediscover myself that the way I feel loved is not when someone do things for me (yes.. I WILL be touched) nor when someone take time to get me a gift (yes.. I WILL love anything any of my friends give me)...

More so, I found that I totally enjoy spending time with friends, talking, doing lives, sharing. Amongst my shepherding session, the most fulfilling ones were when we had the quality time to sit down and share. At the end of the session, I felt shepherded & towards my sheep, I felt I had shepherded. Haa.. Of course, I am not always the one talking. When a friend ask what gift do I want, I will usually reply "Save the money, let's go for a meal". But hee.. My choice of meal may not be all that cheap also la!

Yeah.. In my quest to rediscover myself, I found that my primary love language is Quality Time. When the answer seeped into my head, it was like "NO WONDER I felt so upset whenever my friend start having her/his own life.. NO WONDER I felt upset when I am not heard. NO WONDER no wonder No Wonder..."

I really love discovering myself. Each time I found something, it'll bring a smile to my face. And that smile can stay on the whole day or even days.

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