Friday, September 23, 2005

Questions Questions Questions

"When's your turn?"
"You not attached? Come on la! Don't bluff la!"
"SURE?! You not attached?"
"Wah... The older you get, the prettier you get too..."
"Are you very choosy? Must be la!"

Whatever made anyone think that the older one must get married first?
I don't get this...!
Haha!
Well, bombarded by questions like the above and that's not all.
I thought I was relatively safe from these questions cause my aunties ain't really those "san gu liu po" type...
But who knows?
These questions comes from my cousins!
Haha!

Just attended my cousin's wedding if you guys were wondering why all those questions.
The wedding was beautiful.
PLace was fantastically decorated.
Music... food was good.
The couple looks just TOO fabulous..!

Hmm... Weddings will usually put me deep in thoughts.
  • Being not very close to my cousins, family weddings will see me sitting down and wrecking my brains as to what questions can I ask to keep the ball rolling?
  • If it's non-church good friend's wedding, I will normally be kept busy answering why have I decided to change my career route and why am I not attached.
  • If it's a church friend's wedding, things will really be easier... I will normally be able to sit back and relax. Free from unnecessary questions...!
  • Some of the times, I will be invited to weddings where perhaps I'm that privileged friend so I will be sitting with 8-9 others that I don't know. Being VERY un-people person, I REALLY wreck my brains as to WHAT to talk. Many times, I will kick myself in the butt wondering why I even attend the wedding!
  • Well, and SOMETIMES, I will be invited to weddings that's my friend's siblings! That's the interesting one... I will be wondering - Why I even bother..! (Okie.. "Bother" is too strong a word...)
Sometimes I do feel.. "Wow!! After all the effort of perhaps a year, it's over in JUST one night. Amazing."
Anyhow, after every wedding, I will be so happy.
Cause I know at least there's one couple who's ecstatic!

As I'm typing this now, I am excitedly speaking to a friend from Oz!
Gosh!! Am SO happy seeing him online that I GRABBED his attention quick!
Haven't seen him for ages!!! Miss him so much... He's another friend who stuck by me when I was in Oz...
Man.. He has gotten married!
Time flies....

OH NO!!!
Even as I am STILL typing this now, I am given yet another invitation to another wedding...
And I have another wedding to attend next Friday...

OKie.... Gonna go rest from all the shock...

Zzzzz..........................................

4 comments:

DARLing said...

we always get this Question from aunties wen we attend wedding
n esp at CNY too!
but glad we have a group of close cousins tat share my life with
~~ *

may u find your prince son ~ in god love

sandra lim said...

:) I'm not in a hurry yet.

Tiger said...

i have 1 to attend in nov (army friend) and 2 (Hope) in jan-feb where I'm driver and usher. Our church is growing so fast..

sandra lim said...

Yeah! A growing church is a good sign!! Even in Hopekids, there seem to be more kids! Hee!