Plans

Ok, I have finally did something which I never thought I would have done - placing my dad in a Nursing Home.

I had to convince myself that this is in the best interest for my dad.

Having to be tube fed, not knowing the capability of Dad's physical movement, the doctors at CGH was a tad unwilling to discharge my dad as the after-care was dodgy. They had to discharge my dad as an Acute Hospital is not the best place for recovering patients. However, the doctors were worried that my mum is unable to assist my dad in his daily care.

A few suggestions:

• For my dad to be admitted to a Community Hospital. Due to my dad's previous track record, the Community Hospital rejected his request for admission two times. Doctors also suggested for us to get a helper.
  
• Getting a helper. However, knowing my dad's character, getting a helper will not be helpful. My dad will not allow a stranger to help him, especially with daily routine.

Finally, when it seemed like it's a dead end, the doctor suggested Day Care. We checked out our nearest Day Care and realized they are also a Nursing Home. Mum & sis spoke to dad asking him if he would like to go for Day Care. Sadly, he said he wants a Nursing Home instead, unfortunately.

After some findings, we were gladdened that the Nursing Home has physiotherapist, doctors and nurses. We are hoping to get a speech therapist in to assess my dad's swallowing.

I am praying against his resistance for therapy.

As I am typing this, I am reminded from Proverbs 16:9 "In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.". So far, many of what is happening are plans that we have in mind. Ultimately, I am committing dad into God's hands.